Your perception is your reality. You have the power to change it. What do you want to be true? How can you make it happen? If you believe something enough, you may find yourself believing it’s true.-Mae West
A lot of people don’t realize how much they control their own lives until they lose everything. Your perception is your reality-Abraham Lincoln
Your perception is your reality
In order to change your reality, you need to change how you perceive things. If you want to have a happy relationship, then you cannot expect your partner to change their behavior. You need to change how you view things. How you look at something determines how you feel about it. If you look at a problem as a challenge, then you will find ways to overcome it. But if you look at a problem and think “I am not good enough”, then you will feel inadequate and worthless.
Change starts with yourself
You cannot change anything else until you first change yourself. If you want to achieve success in any area of your life, then you need to change your beliefs and attitudes. And the way you think affects everything you do. If you believe that you are not capable of doing something, then you will never try. If you believe that something is possible, then you will take steps to achieve it.
What you focus on is what you get
What you focus on determines what you get. If you focus on negative thoughts, then you will attract negative people and situations into your life. If you focus on positive thoughts, then you will draw positive people and events into your life.
Attitude determines altitude
If you have a positive attitude, you will experience joy and happiness. If you have a negative attitude, you will experience sadness and sorrow.
What you put out comes back to you
You create your own reality. Whatever goes out comes back to you. So, if you send out love, you will receive love. If you send out hate, you will receive hate. If you send out gratitude, you will receive gratitude. If you send out jealousy, you will receive jealousy. If you send out anger, you will receive anger. If you send out fear, you will receive fear. If you send out hope, you will receive hope.
Don’t let anyone tell you differently
Don’t listen to others who say that they know better than you. They may seem to know better, but they don’t really know. They only appear to know better. When someone tells you that you are wrong, just keep quiet and remember these words…
You’ve got to want it bad enough
The secret to getting what you want is wanting it bad enough. Wanting it bad enough means that you will work hard enough to make sure that you get what you want. Wanting it bad means that you will go after it with all of your heart.
Change your perspective
When you change your perspective, you can change your entire world. In fact, you can change your life!
Don’t let the fear of failure hold you back
The biggest obstacle to achieving success in life is often self-doubt. When you doubt yourself, you give up before even starting. But if you face your fears, you’ll discover that they aren’t nearly as bad as you thought they were.
Let go of guilt
Guilt is a poison. It doesn’t help you get rid of pain; it only makes you feel worse. Guilt keeps you stuck in regret. Instead of focusing on what you did wrong, try to forgive yourself for whatever mistakes you’ve made.
Take responsibility for your own happiness
No matter where you are in life, you always have a choice. You can choose to stay unhappy, or you can choose to be happy. Happiness is never something that happens to somebody else. It’s always a decision you make.
Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible’. -Audrey Hepburn
No matter how slow you go, you still get there. -George Washington Carver